ON MY FIRST SON, BY BEN JONSON

According to the analysis of this poem, form the perspecive of the speaker, when people love too much and loose that person that can be extremely painful. Thus, he would prefer not to feel that pain again.

He thinks that he committed a sin by loving his son too much, and that it is the reason why he now feel so much pain. Also, he might fell some connection between his love a his son death.

The speaker is upset with his pain, thus, he want to forget the idea of being a father if his son is already death.The speakers vows will be never o like too much the thinks he loves in order to not suffer so hard when they go away.He has concluded that loving to much can make you suffer a lot so he decided not love so much again.

Actually the speaker seems to be more upset than sad but it is logic that he is mad with live for taking his son away. He off course feel so much pain that he could not handle feeling it again..People nowadays tend to scape from their problem through death so they can not feel anything again.

For me we can not control our beloved ones death or live; the best we can do is enjoy the time we have with them and live each day as If it were the last of our lives.